Saturday, November 5, 2011

CHANCES' NUANCES

    Everyday we are given chances by life..by people, loved ones. Some of us take it for granted while some are aware of it and take advantage of the way we are offered these chances.

    There are some chances that lead to changes, as there are chances that we should not take at all if we don't want things to change. Chances are, whatever the chance we're given there is a considerable change somewhere.

   The other day a friend was asking if she should give somebody a chance. Apparently their is a stumbling block to the relationship they had. This got me thinking that while we are giving someone a second chance, maybe a third, or fourth chance even, we are also opening up ourselves to a limitless array of - - chances.

    It's like giving ourselves a chance as well, the option to take life or the relationship to another level, whereas even if misgivings or shortcomings are discovered it's now on another plane..knowing we could never go back to the earlier category when troubles are miles away.

   To face up to the challenge of entering into a different point in the relationship to see how much we can handle. That is a chance we take for the choices we made.

   It's never-ending..chance definitely has its nuances..whether we chanced upon a good fortune or not depends again on the next chance we take..and on and on it goes..